She found out I had sex with two others 4 months back

At the same time she discovered I flirt with two old people of my college. I played sarcasm on one of her friend asking for a night stay together. What is my position now? I begged her for one week. Now she thinks I am cheap, A flirt , A cheater.

I love her for real. I did beg her initially. If I take up this program will it help me? Should I now clear all the misconceptions she has in her head? After no contact rule(2months planned) Will she think back I am a cheat and flirt? Whom do I contact to help me?

I deal with a long distance relationship

This program works for the majority as long as you follow it and you’re honest with yourself. However, as you’re dealing with a fellow human being, at times the outcome can still be uncertain. I suggest for now, follow the plan as well as NC to give her space to calm down (as you mentioned, 2 Spanska kvinnor months may be a good idea). Spend this time focusing on yourself and if you do ever get her back, prove to her with actions that you’re loyal to her alone.

As this is a long distance relationship she doesnt have to meet me

I finally made up my mind to wait. So I am sure she will read the letter ill be sending her after one and half month. I’m sure that 2nd of january shell be going to a place. Should I go there without informing her? What should I act like? How do I get her right side of the brain to work? Should things be formal? The moment I agreed I cheated on her she cried and said she still pities me. Maybe repeated calls and msgs pissed her off. I have no clue what my aim should be when I meet her. Please help.

Your aim should be to give her space right now, and even when you decide to initiate contact again, be casual and not too pushy about it. You don’t want her to feel like you’re over stepping boundaries. Even if you know she is going somewhere, it’s best not to ‘surprise’ her there but rather, properly arrange for a meet up.

Do Kevin’s template mails work for cheating cases? He said I need to approach her when she looses all her irritation and anger, Missing would happen after that. When do I know the exact time she will be missing me? If I miss time contacting her. She might move on or still get irritated

There is honestly no fixed time as it differs from every individual and the context of what happened. However, if the relationship was a strong one and you were both emotionally committed, you’ll have to disregard your insecurity of her moving on in such a short time, and trust that if you approach her in the future, you’d be able to win her over again (provided you have done your part to change).

7 more days for one month of no contact period, After the breakup I begged her for two weeks. She told one of her friend that she even lost irritation at me by the end of two weeks. Now, She put a fake reason and contacted my friend to know how I was doing. She told him she still hates me, it would be good if i don’t repeat it with anyone else. Long back she forgot to block me on insta, I liked a few posts recently and she blocked me there too. What should be my next move? I am ready to put last inch of me to get her back. Please show me a path. 7more days for my no contact period (1month)